In today’s article, I’m going to cover five kinds of texts that your spouse is actually already dying to receive from you. So you know, typically what happens is when we first start dating a lover or a partner, we usually go through what’s called the honeymoon phase, I’m sure you’ve heard of it.
And this is just sort of the first few months that gets you know, it’s often characterized as the most passionate time in really any couple’s relationship. And you know, during that time, you might be doing everything that you can to impress him or her. And of course, in doing so, you’ll often make sure that you text your partner that perfect text message every time.
sometimes you’ll even you’ll pour through your keyboard, you know, for 10 minutes, just to find the right few words, right? Does that sound familiar? But of course, you know, as time goes on, that sort of dynamic changes, and you start texting your partner less and less, and the contents of your texts becomes a lot more, you know, stale and boring.
There’s nothing wrong with that, by itself, you know, long term relationships do change over time. And the kind of bond that you share with your spouse becomes deeper, more stable, and subsequently, less chaotic and less exciting. But that said, it is important that as this happens, you don’t forget to occasionally, excite your spouse in the kind of way that really only you can.
texting is actually just a really easy way to do that. So, without further ado, let’s get into these five kinds of text messages that you should never forget to use on your spouse, from time to time.
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1# the thinking about you text message.
I mean, these are just kind of text messages that spouses in long term marriages really don’t send very often anymore. But they can have a huge impact in the way that your significant other views you and thinks about you moving forward.
So for example, you might say something like, “I know, I don’t tell you this often enough. But I’m so grateful just to have you in my life. I just thought of that today”. Or here’s another example, maybe you could say, you know, I know you’re busy at work right now, I just wanted to let you know that I’m thinking about you. Or how about something as simple as I can’t wait to see your beautiful face later. Or, you know, lastly, even something really even simple as hope that work project isn’t getting to you. And I hope you’re having a great day.
And you know, the great thing about just texting something like this is it takes five seconds to send it. But it can have really a massive impact on your spouse and your marriage right away. Right immediately upon sending it. If you don’t believe me, just try it out, you know, give it a shot, send one of those messages to your spouse tomorrow or today.
And I think you’ll see how actually effective they really can be.
2# the love text.
And this is especially targeted for married couples that don’t really, you know, say that L Word often enough to one another. So, you know, for example, you could say something like, I’m constantly reminded every day of why I fell in love with you, thank you. Or, you know, I’m so thankful that we fell in love with each other. I can’t imagine life without you.
Or even something as simple as I just wanted to say that I love you. Alright, I know, I know, it probably sounds really awkward and cheesy when I say these things in this article. But these kinds of texts really do work. And they can really help a lot in your marriage. So do yourself a favor, try one of them out, or if you think that you have a good love text that you can send to your spouse, please share it in the comments below , I would love to hear your feedback. And I’m sure everyone else would like another suggestion as well.
3# the attraction text.
Over time, it is normal for a marriage to sort of lose it spark and sometimes a well timed intimate text message, or in your marriage can really just inject some sexual energy that your marriage might really be needing. Now, without getting into too much detail, you know, you could say something like, “let’s make tonight all about you”. Or “let’s have some fun after work”, you know, wink wink and just a little winking emoji. Or maybe “this morning with so much fun. When can I do that again to you”.
Alright, you know clearlyThe possibilities here are endless. Those are just a few examples. So you know, make sure that you get a little more descriptive in whatever text you send your your spouse, but do try this out, and you’ll be thankful you did. And so your partner.
4# the humor text.
You know, laughter is often described as the most powerful aphrodisiac out there. And when you’ve been with someone for so long, often, you can kind of just forget about that. I mean, like I said, Remember, when you were first dating, and passionately in love in the honeymoon phase, you would do whatever you could to make your spouse smile and laugh. And maybe you still do.
But texting is one of the easiest ways to accomplish this. And it’s one of the best ways to do this. you just need to send them you know, even a funny picture, a meme, GIF, copy and paste, you know, your favorite joke, and send it to your spouse. There’s even like those, you know, animated GIF keyboards that you can send your spouse and funny clips, stuff like that. Instagram and Reddit are great time wasters and resources to find funny means that kind of thing that your spouse and you are both going to enjoy.
This kind of, joking around sending this kind of message is really effective, especially when your spouse is having a tough day or a tough week or whatever. So do whatever you can, you know, just make sure you give your significant other during those times the kind of humorous love and attention that they deserve, just send them a text and make them laugh.
number five, the last kind of text, this is probably the most important one, but only should be used in the right situation.
5# the apology text.
Now, of course, arguments and disagreements are inevitable in any marriage. But it’s how you handle your conflicts that define how strong your bond is going to be moving forward. And one of the most difficult things to do during conflict with your spouse is to apologize when you know you’re wrong.
Now, usually apologies need to happen in person ideally. But sometimes when it comes to, you know, just little arguments, sometimes a simple text can do the trick. So, you know, you could just say something like, I’m sorry, you were right last night, or I’m sorry about the night before last. Can I make it up to you later? Or even How about, uh, you know, it was my fault we fought last night, I’ll always, you know, keep trying to make sure we have a solid understanding between you and I, I’m sorry.
Overall, I mean, apologizing in a marriage can be one of the most difficult things to do, especially if you’re really a person with a lot of pride. But you know, it takes a lot of intellectual honesty and a lot of courage to admit that you’re wrong. And this is one of the most powerful and attractive things that you can actually do in your marriage. Alright, so that is about it for today.
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